I hate not being able to be a part in major decisions even though the kids still partially resident at our house. All because im not a bio parent?? Its my home time and expenses too! Were supposed to count by being supportive, loving, and good role models but not heard?? We dont get credit for all we do.
I love that the kids by THIER choice call me ?mom? and their real mom by her name, they have alot more respect for me as i do for them. We communicate.
Big john- i do apreciate they call me mom but if i see them as my own and hey see me as their mom, if im a pivotal part in their life, i should have some kind of a say somewhere.
HUbby does listen but it gets really fustrating when all three of us have a different opinion. His ex is very threatened by the kids and my relationship, you figure she would be happy that there is someone there that treats them good and loves them.
Best answer:Answer by big John T
the worst thing about being a step parent is when you divorce if you are lucky as i am you still get to see the child so you said you dont get credit for what you do but then you turn around and say they call you mom and respect you by their choice that should be credit enough for what you do but you are right there bio mother is not going to pat you om the back and give you any credit and you should have some say in what goes on but it has to be done thru your husband the both of you should be talking about the decisions being made
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